The Grove of the Ancient Archer

Douglas E. Gray

Sept.8, 1938 - Sept.28, 2016
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Doug Gray, 78, was an avid outdoorsman and adventurer, a hunter and fisherman who deeply appreciated and was respectful of nature and life. The Grove of the Ancient Archer will continue to grow as the people he loved and who loved him deeply honor his memory and his pride in his Scottish heritage.

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I miss you Dad! Seven years, hard to believe. I know you're here with me and I am eternally grateful for that. I look forward to all of us being together again!
Donated by Cathy
28/09/2023
Happy birthday, Dad! I hope you're celebrating with the loved ones on the 'other side.' We sure do love you and miss you a ton!
Donated by Cathy, Darrell, Lily, Darian and Dante
08/09/2023
Just because. :)
Donated by Cathy
13/07/2023
It's Mom's 84th birthday! (She has determined, however, that she is only 64, ha!) We know you're with her in spirit to celebrate! As I'm sure you know, she's getting spoiled yet again this year. We all love and miss you!
Donated by Cathy
21/02/2023
In honor of Cindy's birthday! Another tree for the two of you to sit beneath in the forest and spend time together in her dreams! We all love you and miss you, and are grateful you check in on us now and again.
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
25/01/2023
In honor of Jen's birthday, your oldest granddaughter! We all cherish and miss you.
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
11/01/2023
Merry Christmas, Dad! I miss you so, so much!
Donated by Cathy
26/12/2022
Happy birthday, Dad! This has been kind of a tough one for me, but I'm starting a new tradition to celebrate Sept. 8, and that will bring me comfort and make you happy!
Donated by Cathy
08/09/2022
I miss you, Dad.
Donated by Cathy
03/07/2022
Miss you, Dad. Been a while since I've hopped on here. I'm headed into uncharted territory and I need to remind myself that you will be there with me!
Donated by Cathy
06/05/2022
Five years -- it seems like forever and yet just like yesterday. I miss you terribly, but it helps that I can feel you near us and hear you when I reach out with a question. Thanks for all you've given me and the family. I love you so very much.
Donated by Cathy
28/09/2021
5 years. I still can’t get used to a world you are not in. I miss you so often and so much. The world has changed so much without you. I miss your laugh, your voice and your stories. Thinking of you always. Love you. Stef
Donated by Stef
22/09/2021
For the 5th anniversary of your death, we celebrate your life!
Donated by Cindy
22/09/2021
Dad, I finally feel like Mina found you and crossed. Darrell heard her nails clicking across the hardwood the day after she passed and I was so worried she was confused and lost. Thank you for helping her. We miss her dearly, she was/is such a good girl.
Donated by Cathy
13/08/2021
Happy Anniversary, Dad and Mom! Even though you're not of this world any more, I know your love for us thrives and will continue to do so for all generations. I love you and miss you, Dad!
Donated by Cathy
04/04/2021
April 4- - 62 years ago, I married my Paratrooper, my Hero. You are still, and always will be, my Hero and the Love of my life. Always, Judy
Donated by Judy G.
03/04/2021
It's Mom's 82nd birthday! We've been celebrating it for more than a month. :D I know you're smiling down on your beautiful bride today and helping to make it special for her. <3
Donated by Cathy
21/02/2021
Happy holidays, Dad! This year has been so messed up for so many, including us. But Mom is safe and so are our families, so we are blessed. I miss you.
Donated by Cathy
11/12/2020
Well, my Love, here we are at the end of September. It's bittersweet month for us. We sweetened it some with visits to the Memorial Garden enjoying your favorite Turtles from Enstrom's. Dan, Carol, Kelli, Tyler and I enjoyed some on your Birthday and again, with Cathy, on the 4th Anniversary of your passing. I will always love you, my Hero! Judy
Donated by Judith Gray
30/09/2020
Four years today, Dad. Seems so long ago and yet so close. Mom and I are heading to the Veterans Memorial Gardens with Dan, Carol and Kelli to honor you.
Donated by Cathy
28/09/2020
Happy birthday, Dad. I sure miss you and will find ways all day to remember and honor you. I love you.
Donated by Cathy
08/09/2020
I've got a great big pumpkin for Mom this year. I know you already know that, but it feels good to talk to you on here as well as everywhere I go.
Donated by Cathy
26/08/2020
So many changes, Dad. Thank you for the sign from you and Tommy that he's OK. I know you check in on us once in a while and we appreciate it. Thanks for looking out after Mom. I miss you terribly. You're in my dreams almost every night.
Donated by Cathy
08/04/2020
08/03/2020
Dad, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! This is a year of change. As you know, I'm sure, Tommy will be joining you soon. I know you will all make his passage filled with joy and love. The kids and I are heading down tomorrow to say goodbye. Darrell is already there. We love Tommy and will miss him and the joy he has brought to our lives. It never fades -- our missing you hasn't faded in the least. But I know he'll be at peace because you're at peace, and that gives us peace. I love you, Dad.
Donated by Cathy Beuten
09/01/2020
Christmas 2019- I put up our tree this year and smiled as I thought of you saying, "This is the best one yet!". I love you and miss you.
Donated by Judith Gray
24/12/2019
You've got a new great-grandson! Dalton is here and healthy and so happy! He's on O2 while his lungs adjust to the altitude, but is unfazed by it all. He looks like Darian.
Donated by Cathy Beuten
29/11/2019
Three years. How can that be? Sometimes it seems like you left us yesterday, and other times it seems like an eternity ago. I miss you.
Donated by Cathy
26/09/2019
15/09/2019
September 8, 2019- Your Birthday. I'll enjoy an Enstrom Turtle in your honor and remember the past Happy Birthday celebrations! I miss you so much and will Love you always, Judy
Donated by Judith Gray
06/09/2019
Happy birthday, Dad! I miss you more than words can say.
Donated by Cathy
05/09/2019
It's your beautiful granddaughter Lisa's birthday!
We're all thinking of you and missing you!
Donated by The Beutens
17/06/2019
Happy Father's Day, Dad! We love and miss you so very much!
Donated by Cathy and the gang
13/06/2019
Thank you, Dad, for helping Raul cross over the Rainbow Bridge.
It was so very fast and tragic,
only a few days after his 14th birthday,
but it helped all of us to know you were there for him.
Donated by Cathy Beuten
07/06/2019
As you know, Mark (Bro, Uncle Bro) died last night.
I know you were one of the many loved ones
there to greet him and celebrate his life.
Look in on us once in a while, and let the grilling begin! <3
Donated by Cathy
28/05/2019
Happy birthday to our sweet, beautiful Stef!
I know you check in on her once in a while,
and that makes me smile.
We both miss you so very, very much!
Donated by The Beutens
22/05/2019
Happy birthday, Darrell!
We all love you and are so very proud of you!
Donated by Cathy
01/05/2019
Happy birthday Adam!
I know your grandpa is looking down and smiling.
We're all proud of you
and your family and love you very much!
Donated by The Beutens
01/05/2019
I miss You.
You are in my mind so much lately.
I felt Like you reached out and grabbed my shoulder the other day.
Was it you? I hope So.
It makes me feel better knowing you are close.
Love, Stef
Donated by Stef
23/04/2019
Our Lily is turning 30!
I know you're as proud of her as we are, Dad.
Her family is doing great as is she.
We look forward to taking them out and celebrating!
We hope you're able to stop by. :)
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
22/04/2019
Happy 28th birthday to your grandson, our amazing son, Darian!
We're so proud of him and excited for him and Jess to be parents.
They're visiting you here, but we know you're with us often.
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
18/04/2019
Happy anniversary!
We will be again honoring you both today
and Cindy is on hand to spoil Mom.
I know they'll visit your memorial and bring turtles.
We love and miss you!
Donated by The Beutens
03/04/2019
You're going to be a great-grandpa again!
Darian and Jess' Baby Henderson-Beuten is due Sept. 24,
a couple weeks past your birthday and the day after Dean's.
We're extremely excited!
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
15/03/2019
Winter beauty at 8500' thanks to you and Mom for bringing us home 48 years ago. Miss you more than words can say.
Donated by Dan & Carol
14/03/2019
Dad, your beautiful bride turns 80 on Feb. 21!
We've already begun spoiling her with a special visit
from some of her grandkids. And it will continue this coming weekend as we get together to feast!
Donated by The Beutens
19/02/2019
I sure do miss you, Dad.
Valentine's Day was always so special to us!
This is one of the last gifts you gave me.
One of my many treasures,
and memories, that keep you close.
Donated by Cathy
14/02/2019
Happy Valentine's Day, my Love!
I so miss our tradition of trading Enstrom candies!
I'm taking a Dark Chocolate Turtle to the VA Memorial Garden
to enjoy in your honor.
Love you forever.
Donated by Judy Gray
12/02/2019
In honor of Cindy's 59th birthday!
Donated by The Beutens
23/01/2019
Happy birthday to Jen! She turns 29 today.
Donated by The Beutens
11/01/2019
It's Dan's birthday! He and Carol have been such a help to Mom. I know you're proud and grateful -- as I am, too. We love you and miss you every day.
Donated by The Beutens
18/12/2018
In honor of Holly's birthday. Your beautiful granddaughter, seen here with her beautiful family, Eric, Jones and Layla.
Donated by Cathy
10/12/2018
Happy birthday to your youngest grandchild!
In the time you've been gone, he has become a deputy sheriff and is engaged to Becky, who I'm glad you got to meet.
I know you're proud of him as we are.
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
23/11/2018
Dez's birthday! He's our wily little elf.
Soon after you died he asked if I was sad. I said yes.
"Why are you sad?' I said I missed you.
He said, "That's OK, you can come live with me."
Donated by Darrell and Cathy
24/10/2018
Oct. 19 is my 57th birthday, Dad!
I wish you were here to celebrate, but I know you're looking after us and that brings me comfort.
And even though you're gone, you still make me smile.
Donated by Cathy
17/10/2018
It'll be two years since you left us Sept. 28.
Sometimes it seems like yesterday; sometimes a lifetime ago.
Sometimes I go back and read through our texts and smile.
We will be together to honor you!
Donated by The Beutens
26/09/2018
Dean turns 3 Sept. 23. He's smart and sassy and has our blue eyes. Happy birthday to your great-grandson, my precious grandson.
I hope you can check in on him once in a while.
Donated by Darrell and Cathy
21/09/2018
Happy 27th birthday to your beautiful granddaughter, Kelli!
Donated by The Beutens
12/09/2018
Sept. 8, 2018--This would be your 80th birthday.
We will celebrate YOU and love you always.
This pic was celebrating your 77th.
The special Grandpa shirt was signed by the grandchildren.
A treasure.
Donated by Judy Gray
06/09/2018
Happy birthday, Dad!
We'll be run/walking the Denver 5K on Sept. 8.
We're calling it the "Doug Gray 80-Year 5K' in your honor and to celebrate 30 years since your "50-year 5K."
We sure do miss you.
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
06/09/2018
Happy Father's Day, Dad! It has been another tough one.
I feel like I should be able to call you, send you pics of my garden,
take you to Los Reyes to celebrate.
I'm keeping my chin up, tho, promise.
Donated by Cathy
14/06/2018
Guess what, Dad? We were both right!
It's our 30th anniversary and we're extremely happy about it!
When I lost you, I lost my greatest champion.
But Darrell's doing a great job of it, though.
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
14/06/2018
Happy 31st birthday to your beautiful and sassy granddaughter Lisa!
What a beautiful family she has and I know you're delighted.
Donated by The Beutens
14/06/2018
In memory of My Hero. We honor you today. Love forever, Judy
Donated by Judith
24/05/2018
Happy birthday to your beautiful granddaughter Stef!
We all love and miss you dearly.
Donated by The Beutens
23/05/2018
Happy Memorial Day, Dad! I'm thinking about you and missing you.
I'm going through one of those times where it seems like I screw up every thing I do,
and I sure wish you were here to run things by.
Donated by Cathy
22/05/2018
Honoring you, Dad, on Darrell's birthday! (May 2)
You were and still are beloved and extremely important to him and to all of us. We love you and miss you.
Donated by Cathy
01/05/2018
Happy birthday to your oldest grandson, Adam, on May 2!
You are still with us in spirit always in our celebrations.
Donated by The Beutens
01/05/2018
Happy birthday to two of my incredible children --
your grandchildren. Darian turns 27 and Lily is 29.
We all miss you so very much!
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
25/04/2018
April 4 -- Happy anniversary, Dad and Mom!
This was from your 50th -- one of the many, many wonderful memories we all share.
And guess what? The Avs are good again!
Donated by The Beutens
02/04/2018
Feb. 21 -- It's your beautiful wife's birthday!
She's being spoiled here by your great grandchildren.
I know your heart soars like a hawk,
and I can feel how very proud you are of her.
Donated by The Beutens
20/02/2018
Happy Valentine's Day, Dad. I miss you.
Donated by Cathy
14/02/2018
Happy birthday to your first born!
Cindy turned 58 on Jan 25.
Donated by The Beutens
07/02/2018
Your first grandchild turned 38 on Jan 11! Happy birthday to Jen!
Dad, we all miss you greatly,
but find comfort knowing your spirit walks through the forest with the pups of our past, your present.
Donated by The Beutens
17/01/2018
Merry Christmas!
We're thinking of you and honoring you today as we do every day!
Being together we share stories and lots of laughs
and I know you feel that wherever you're at.
Donated by Cathy, Darrell, Lily, Danny, Dez, Dean, Darian, Jess, Dante and Becky
25/12/2017
Our last Christmas together...2015.
These trees are Christmas trees for you!
I decorated our tree this year and longed to hear you say,
"This is the Best one yet!".
I miss you and love you always.
Donated by Judith Gray
23/12/2017
It's Dan's birthday!
He is truly a remarkable man and a beloved brother,
and we have you and Mom to thank for that!
We love you deeply and miss you daily.
Donated by The Beutens
19/12/2017
Happy birthday to your beautiful granddaughter Holly!
We're so sad you didn't get to meet Jones,
but the little family is doing great AND their second baby,
a miracle, is due May 22!
Donated by The Beutens
09/12/2017
I don't have to tell you, Dad, that Aunt Kay is no longer with us, because I know she's with all of you.
I smile and get a little teary eyed when I think of that beautiful reunion.
Donated by Cathy
08/12/2017
In honor of this young man's 21st birthday Nov. 24.
He started singing "Brandy" out of the blue today
and I knew you were at least passing through.
We sure do miss you.
Donated by Cathy
23/11/2017
In honor of Dez's 5th birthday!
(Photo shows both because Dean's didn't upload on here for his birthday.)
Donated by Cathy, Dez and Dean
25/10/2017
October 19- In honor of our Cathy's birthday.
This fun picture is in memory of a very special day.
One of my many happy memories of time spent with you, my Love.
Love you forever, Judy
Donated by Judith Gray
18/10/2017
It's my birthday, Dad!
Sorry I messed up your hunting trip all those years ago.
Chuckling just thinking about it.
Here's last year's birthday pic of me and the boys.
We'll take this year's tonight.
Donated by Cathy, Dez and Dean
18/10/2017
Sept. 28. 1 year of my life without you.
We took this pic at this time two years ago.
We walked around the lake (I lapped you and Mom).
Such beautiful memories!
One I will always treasure. I miss you.
Donated by Cathy
28/09/2017
Happy birthday to our Dean! (Sept. 23)
I'm glad you guys got to meet, because he's a lot like me and that means he's a lot like you.
We love and miss you.
Donated by Cathy
25/09/2017
This years pumpkins for our beautiful Mom, your beloved wife!
I promised you, Dad, that I'd keep up your tradition of growing her a beauty each year, and I will!
We love and miss you!
Donated by Cathy and Darrell
18/09/2017
Adding a tree in honor of Kelli's Sept 11 birthday.
Happy birthday 26th beautiful girl
I know your grandpa is smiling at you!
Donated by The Beutens
12/09/2017
Happy Birthday Grandpa. Love you.
Donated by Dante Beuten
08/09/2017
Happy birthday to one of my favorite people.
I don't have a day where I don't think about you.
I love you and miss you so much!
Until we meet again.
Xoxox and a pinch.
Donated by Lily, Danny, Dez and Dean
08/09/2017
I miss you. I love you. I cannot tell you how often I think, "Oh, Grandpa would love this!"
And then I remember.
Happy Birthday, Grandpa.
We are celebrating you today.
Donated by Jennifer Sadler
08/09/2017
Thinking of you on your birthday doing one of the things you loved the most - enjoying the beauty of the mountains.
I will forever miss your laugh, your stories, and your hugs.
Love you, my Bro.
Donated by Linda and Mark MacPherson
08/09/2017
Youth always in my heart and on my mind.
Happy heavenly birthday.
Donated by Darrell
08/09/2017
Happy birthday, Dad.
We see signs of your influence all around us, and it gives us great comfort.
You live on in the hearts of your kids, grandkids and great-grandkids.
Quite a legacy! Love, Cindy
Donated by Cindy Mahan
08/09/2017
My Love, I pray that you are truly at Peace on this birthday.
We feel your spirit among us
and believe that your spirit lives on in the Grove of the Ancient Archer.
Love always, Judy
Donated by Judith A. Gray
08/09/2017
Happy birthday, Dad.
I love you with all my heart and I miss you every moment of every day,
even though it is still unfathomable to me that you're gone.
That will never go away.
Donated by Cathy
08/09/2017
As archery season is upon us once again, our thoughts often drift to those of Doug launching an arrow, telling a joke and laughing heartily! Hope you are hanging out with us at hunting camp this year.
Donated by Steve and Simonne
24/08/2017
A Polaroid camera and Kodak Instamatic?
A couple of chuckles Dan, Carol and I had
as we sorted through a few of your buckets, baskets and crates.
Then it hit me that you're not coming back.
Hurts.
Donated by Cathy
31/07/2017
Forever hunting in the Fields with Family, Friends and Dogs!
Enjoy time well spent!
Donated by Your Son, proud to be.
20/07/2017
Always my Hero! Love you forever, Judy
Donated by Judith A. Gray
17/07/2017
Donated by Cathy
14/07/2017
Thought of you all weekend, Dad,
as we hiked up the mountain at the ranch.
I felt you with me and it makes me happy.
This is also my happy place,
where I come on whenever missing you get's too tough.
Donated by Cathy
07/07/2017
23/06/2017
Donated by A friend
21/06/2017
in appreciation for a shining example of how to live a life.
Donated by Guido de Best and Charline Cipriano
19/06/2017
Miss you and love you always grandpa.
Donated by Stefanie Griffith
19/06/2017
Doug Gray is profoundly missed by his family
and all those who loved him.
The Grove of the Ancient Archer is one
of many ways we will continue to honor him.
He is free and our hearts soar like a hawk.
Donated by Judy, Cindy, Cathy and Dan
15/06/2017